"when you are down, people can pull you up but you still have to stand on your own two feet."
its so true. whenever we are in a real fix we have some people around us who help us to stand again. but the real strength to stand up again comes from within us. some people likes to live in their own miseries. i have seen a hell lot of people who are never ready to let go of any thing, any relation or any emotion. i think that is not the way life should be. life is meant to be lived with all its good and bad moments. a real winner is a person who manages to smile through tears and thus make others smile to along with him. i m trying to follow this path and i hope i will finally succeed.