learning from life

"i guess i am learning, little by little, that we decide what our lives are going to be. things happens to us, but its our reactions that matters."

yesterday i had a discussion with my mom on this subject. people react in different ways under similar situations and its their reaction that decides the course of their life. facing a problem either physical or mental has never been easy for anyone in this world. the only thing which we can do in such situation is to have faith in god and our own abilities. time is the greatest healer. and when it teaches us the facts of life through togh experiences, we always come out as a better person. the most important thing that my life has tought me in last few months is to learn to let go. we have to move on in life by letting go people, emotions and memories. a better perspective can turn a foggy situation to a bright day. its only way of thinking that matters. whenever we get defeated all we can do is to learn from yhe mistake that we have made and get up back with more determination. when we make up our mind to achieve a goal then god comes by our side. as their was a dialouge in om shanti om-
"अगर किसी चीज़ को बहुत शिद्दत से चाहो , सारी कायनात तुम्हें उस से मिलाने की कोशिश में जुट जाती है।"